Bringing home a new puppy, rescue or older dog, is an exciting time for everyone. You, your family and other animals such as cats and other dogs, automatically become part of his/her family. Your new dog instantly looks for leadership and for his/her place in the pecking order.  Often, this is when unwanted behavioural problems develop.  The problem is, we are human but your dog is not which means we both communicate in two different languages with differing needs and expectations.

You naturally lead with a human mentality but dogs have their very own mentality.  Because the two are worlds apart it can in turn inadvertently leave you and your dog in a position of confusion. (Very much like being dropped in the middle of a foreign country where you can't speak the language)  This is when problems can start. Depending on your dog's personality (not breed) will govern whether he/she will literally take over the household or become nervous and insecure. It is not that you have done anything wrong, you are simply not a dog and innocently miss what your dog is looking for.

Your dog needs a strong and fair leader who is calm, confident and decisive with self-assured body language because dogs communicate through body language. This is what makes your dog feel safe, calm and relaxed. When we do not meet these expectations, that is when unwanted behaviors' can develop such as:

v      Pulling on the lead

v      Annoying or incessant barking

v      Getting distressed at loud noises

v      Aggression or nervousness

v      Refusing to come when called (inside or outside)

v      Shadowing you around the house

v      Jumping up

v      Chewing or destroying your home or belongings 

v      Separation anxiety

v      Going mad when someone comes to your door or passes your house